About

Hi, I’m Vera Wildes, the voice behind Two Big Two Little.

This blog grew out of the everyday chaos and sweetness of life with my crew — two big kids, two little ones, and one mom trying to find beauty, balance, and humor in it all. Somewhere between school drop-offs, late-night laundry, and quiet cups of coffee, I realized that the small moments were the ones that mattered most.

Two Big Two Little is a space to celebrate those moments — the real, unfiltered parts of family life that don’t always make it onto picture-perfect feeds. It’s where I share stories about motherhood, home, and the delicate art of trying to raise good humans while still learning and growing myself.

Here, you’ll find reflections on parenting, gentle routines, small joys, and the lessons that come from everyday messes. I write about what’s working, what’s not, and what it means to create a home that feels full — not because it’s flawless, but because it’s loved.

This space isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence — showing up for the people we love, including ourselves, and finding grace in the middle of it all.

If you’ve ever looked around and thought, “This is a little wild, but it’s ours,” you’re in the right place.

Welcome to Two Big Two Little.